Helping your children stay safe online

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The internet is an important part of how young people learn, communicate, and build relationships. Along with its benefits, however, come risks that families should understand and talk about openly.

One issue that has received increasing attention is “sexting,” where teens send or receive personal or explicit messages or images. Research suggests this behavior is not uncommon, which makes education and guidance especially important.

A supportive, informed approach from parents can make a meaningful difference.

Understanding the Legal Landscape

In Georgia, laws related to explicit images involving minors are strict. Even when images are shared voluntarily between teens, the law may treat this as a serious offense.

  • Creating or sharing explicit images of anyone under 18 may violate state law.
  • This can apply to both the person sending and the person receiving the images.
  • Storing such images on any device can also lead to legal consequences.

Many teens are not aware that their actions could have legal consequences. Open conversations can help them make more informed decisions.

The Reality of Sharing Online

It’s important for young people to understand that digital content can spread quickly and unexpectedly.

Even when something is shared privately, it can be forwarded, copied, or saved. Once an image or message is online, it can be very difficult to fully remove.

  • Messages and images can be saved or screenshotted
  • Content may be reshared without permission
  • Posts can circulate beyond the original audience

This is why helping children think ahead before sharing is so important.

Signs Parents Can Watch For

Every child is different, but certain changes in behavior may signal that something is wrong or that your child needs support:

  • Becoming unusually secretive about their phone or online activity
  • Quickly closing screens or hiding devices when others are nearby
  • Sudden changes in mood after using their phone (anxiety, sadness, anger)
  • Receiving messages or notifications at odd hours
  • Reluctance to attend school or social activities
  • Deleting apps, messages, or accounts frequently

These signs do not automatically mean something serious is happening, but they can be an opportunity to check in and start a conversation.

How Parents Can Help

Stay Engaged

Take an interest in the apps and platforms your child uses. Regular check-ins—both conversations and occasional device reviews—can help keep them safe.

Set Clear, Reasonable Boundaries

Work together to establish guidelines for online behavior. When children understand the “why” behind rules, they are more likely to follow them.

Encourage Open Communication

Let your child know they can come to you if something makes them uncomfortable or if they make a mistake. A calm, supportive response builds trust.

Use Trusted Resources

Organizations like the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children and NetSmartz offer helpful tools, videos, and guidance for families.

Promote Thoughtful Sharing

Before sending anything online, ask: “Would I be okay if others saw this?”

Creating a Safer Digital Environment

Technology will continue to be part of everyday life. By staying informed, involved, and approachable, parents can help their children develop safe and responsible online habits.

Ongoing conversation—not just rules—is the most powerful tool you have.